We Left the City and Never Recalled

If you ever imagine a new beginning in the country, you're not alone. Hear what it resembles from 3 households who actually made the leap.
Who hasn't dreamed of dumping city life and relocating to the country? Maybe you've spent weekend trips turning through the regional genuine estate listings, baffled by how far a dollar can extend: A farmhouse (with acreage!) for what a walkup studio would cost in the city?

In 2012, I made the jump, moving from Seattle to a little summertime town in Maine. I began photographing these people and interviewing them about their accomplishments and challenges in transitioning to nation living. The project took flight instantly-- plainly I wasn't the only one thinking about getting away the city.

Don't take it from me, though. Hear it from these 3 families who left the city behind for a new beginning.

Photography by Alissa Hessler. You can find out more profiles like these on Urban Exodus and in her book Ditch the City and Go Country.



Kenzie and Shawn Fields
When a household of New Yorkers discovered a quirky house in the Berkshires at a 3rd the expense of their city cage, they figured it was fate.
Moved from: New York City City, pop. 8.5 million
Kenzie and Shawn Fields were living in what many New York families would consider a dream situation-- a three-bedroom cage home in a preferable Brooklyn area. To pay for living in the city, though, both Kenzie and Shawn had to work long hours.

When Kenzie's moms and dads moved to the Berkshires, a creative center in the mountains of Massachusetts, the Fields family came for a see and began dreaming of leaving the city behind. "It felt like an inspired idea," remembers Shawn. "On what I believed was a lark, we looked at a home in a town with a great little school," says Shawn.

Transferred to: New Marlborough, Mass., pop. 1,509
Shawn and Kenzie took a leap of faith and moved their family to New Marlborough. "Living in a village in the country was a great response for us," states Kenzie. "We're actions from a post workplace, library, car mechanic and a general store. We live across from a rushing creek, which is comforting. There's no deafening rural silence. Rural does not have to imply empty and vast."

Instead of continuing to work hard to further the professions of other artists, the couple chose to focus their efforts on structure Shawn's fine-art service. Quiting their stable city incomes while handling the expenses of winter heating and caring for an old home hasn't been a cinch, but they can't imagine returning to the confined confines of city living.

Entering their house is like walking into among Shawn's narrative paintings. On a common day, their child, Honey, may greet you in the backyard with a pet bunny, their kid Peter may follow you around with his brass trumpet, and their other kid Odie might use to perform a magic technique. They have gotten crafty-- repurposing wood, windows and thrifted treasures to change their cottage into a relaxing, eccentric wonderland.

The kids have far more flexibility to check out now-- they spend hours playing in the creek by their home and offering at the library down the street. And they've all seen, says Kenzie, that "the opportunity to care is more present when you run out the overwhelming scale of a city. When my mother died, people we didn't know well left entire meals on our deck."

They like the natural setting of their brand-new life, states Kenzie. "Playing charades with our next-door neighbors, heating with wood, the animals, library pie sales, town hall conferences.

Richard Blanco
A Cuban-American poet found the quiet he needs to write-- plus a sense of belonging-- in a tiny Maine town.
Moved from: San Antonio, Texas
At President Obama's second inauguration in 2013, Richard Blanco's reading of his poem One Today inspired the nation. What many people don't know is that, looking back, he's unsure he would have been able to compose the poem if he hadn't been confined to his composing desk, surrounded by pine forests stacked high with snow, up on a mountainside in his brand-new house in St Louis, Missouri.

Before moving to Maine, Richard lived the majority of his life in San Antonio. In 2012, he was working as a civil engineer and composing in his extra time when his partner, Mark, got a task that required the couple to relocate to the small ski town of St Louis, Missouri. Although Richard was a little anxious in the beginning, he was delighted at the possibility of leaving the traffic and noise of city life and having the chance to write more.

Being the kid of Cuban exiles and an immigrant himself, who had pertained to San Antonio as an infant, Richard has actually always longed to discover a place where he belongs. A primary theme in his writing is what it requires to make a place seem like home. And he now understands that living in the nation was a natural for him. "I think I have actually always desired to move to the country," he states. "I always had a tourist attraction to it, especially considering that I returned to Cuba to visit in my teens. The majority of my household is from rural areas in Cuba, and I felt extremely in the house there."

Relocated to: St Louis, Missouri
Richard and Mark didn't know how this small town would receive them, but they have been happily amazed. St Louis has actually invited "the gay couple from San Antonio," as they were described for a while, with open arms. Richard is a respected member of the community and-- since the inauguration-- a town celebrity.

It's been an adjustment. "After that honeymoon phase, the first thing that began to prod on me was needing to drive all over," says Richard. And shopping is challenging: "I live in a resort town, so I can get sushi, but I can't get inkjet cartridges or underwear." To his surprise, he likewise missed out on going out: "Sometimes you simply desire to dress up and feel fabulous-- and there is no place to do that. I've outgrown all my matches living here." He likewise misses the privacy of city life: "There is no such thing as simply a waiter in St Louis. You know their whole life, and you know their kids, where they matured ... and they know whatever about you. It's gorgeous, but sometimes Mark and I will wish to head out to talk about something over supper and ... the walls have ears."

At home, he and Mark have constructed a private sanctuary, total with streams, bridges and ponds, with their own hands. There was a knowing curve. "After a year of fighting the aspects, I needed to make choices about where to stop landscaping and let nature take over," says Richard. "I got a little brought away and made these mounds of work for myself and wound up not enjoying what I initially came here for. I had to take a step back and be alright with letting things simply grow in."

After moving to the nation, Richard initially continued to work from another location on agreement engineering jobs, however the less expensive cost of living in Maine permitted him to shift focus and prioritize his poetry. And since 2013, he's been able to work nearly completely as a writer, leaving his engineering profession behind.

He gives the location where he lives a lot of credit for all this. Life in the nation has actually provided him space and time to focus on his writing. And possibly more significantly, it has actually finally offered him a place that seems like house.

Joe and Ashley Duggers
A surprise company obstacle turned these Silicon Valley entrepreneurs into a household of rural ranchers.
Moved from: Sacramento, California
A couple of years ago, Joe and Ashley Duggers owned and ran 11 companies in the Silicon Valley city of Sacramento: a finding out center, a maker space, a flower designer store and a play area for young children, just to name a couple of. All this in addition to raising 4 ladies under the age of six. They appreciated their busy, full lives but fretted that the abundance of Silicon Valley would offer their daughters a skewed perspective on the world.

This dig this led them to a new possible venture-- running an animals cattle ranch that could supply meat to their restaurant. The property had 2 houses, one a historical Victorian in desperate need of repair work and one a comfortable two-bedroom cabin. They leapt in and bought the property in 2013, hoping to one day discover a method to move to the ranch complete time.

Transferred to: Fort Jones, California, pop. 688
The Duggers' initial plan was to work with ranchers to run the company. Joe and Ashley would increase on weekends so the girls might hang around running totally free in the excellent outdoors. "We always had a desire to raise our kids in broad open areas in a more rural community," says Ashley. "Joe matured on a farm and hoped we 'd return to the land someday. After turning up every weekend for a number of months and discovering a gem of a community here, we quickly decided this was where we wished to raise our kids. We offered our businesses and moved up the day our oldest daughter completed kindergarten and have actually been all-in ever since."

After four years of hard work, the Duggers have actually developed an effective pasture-raised meat service. Looking for more ways to make a living off the land, this year they released Five Ashley Retreats, where they host ladies at their hillside cattle ranch camp for a weekend of farm chores and cooking classes.

The Duggers do not have the benefits, tidy clothes or free time they had in their previous life, and have had to end up being more self-dependent: "In the city, I might get anything done at the drop of a hat," states Ashley. Whatever moves a little more slowly, but living on a ranch implies you can develop anything you can picture yourself, which is more rewarding than working with somebody to do it."

Another benefit is seeing their ladies become brave, independent and hardworking free-range women. "My girls' preferred slogan is 'where there is a will, there's a method,' and we all have to press tough to make it all occur!" says Ashley. At the end of a long day, when the animals are fed, Ashley and Joe love official site to blend a mixed drink, put a Five Ashley roast in the oven and sit on their front deck to enjoy their daughters run free in the backyard.

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